I'm sorry to hear you can't come because of date clashes - I'm still waiting for the invention of a Glorious Date Clash Disabling Device, a thingummy that will allow to shift dates individually - like recording a telly broadcast on the VCR to view it later. Until this thingummy-gadget is available, though... we will all have to decide where to go.
There is a chance, however, that the Forum will become a yearly event, so if the first try is successful, you might be able to join us next year.